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Home » Blog » INTELLECT » How Porn Erodes and Undermines Masculinity | J.K EMEZI
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How Porn Erodes and Undermines Masculinity | J.K EMEZI

December 11, 2018 //  by Ryan Michler

Pornography is something that all men have likely engaged in to some degree. What’s fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men.

My guest today, J.K Emezi, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get work, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity.

“Men who choose to quit their behavior with pornography, only do so for three reasons: love, duty, or fear.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

J.K Emezi

JK EmeziMy guest today is J.K Emezi.

He is a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach and has been for the last 9 years and he specializes in helping men overcome porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders.

This is a fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified to address the sexual issues a lot of men deal with.

He’s written for our site before and one of his articles happens to be one of the most controversial of ours to date as he covers a topic that a lot of men aren’t comfortable in discussing and one that remains very polarizing to a lot of men.

“What I’ve noticed is more and more men acting out their fantasies – they have actually started taking steps in real life to fulfill what they see – and often times, it ends up in shame.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

Show Highlights

  • 3 reasons to quit porn
  • How love, duty, and fear can help you quit watching porn
  • How porn impacts sexual performance
  • How to best overcome the urge to watch porn
  • How the rise in robots and AI will only compound the problem
  • How to develop new coping skills
  • The biochemical imbalances of watching porn and masturbating
  • The five-step process for overcoming pornography addiction
  • Why self-imposed limitations are critical
  • Testosterone’s role in a man’s life
  • How to better utilize self-control
  • How to achieve true sexual satisfaction
  • Tips and activities for replacing the urge to engage in porn use
  • The technology you can use to help overcome your addiction

“Once [a man] is engaged in the behavior of watching porn, he is already altering his neural pathways, whether he likes it or not.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

The Iron Council

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“While there are some men who are not susceptible to [pornography] addiction, for the vast majority of men, it is only a matter of time before [pornography] effects their relationship in one way or the other.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

Connect with J.K Emezi

  • www.elevatedrecovery.org
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • YouTube

“Stress can be dealt with through a variety of coping skills. It does not have to be pornography.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

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About Ryan Michler

Ryan Michler is a father of four, Iraq Combat Veteran, and the founder of Order of Man. Ryan was raised without a permanent father figure and has seen first-hand how a lack of strong, ambitious, self-sufficient men has negatively impacted society. He believes many of the world's most complicated and challenging problems could be resolved if men dedicated themselves to becoming more capable husbands, fathers, businessmen, and community leaders.

It has now become his life's mission to help men across the planet step more fully into their roles as protectors, providers, and presiders over themselves, their families, their businesses, and their communities. His podcast, Order of Man, has been downloaded over 45,000,000 times, he has a social media presence of over 1,00,000 men, and thousands of men have successfully completed his online and live workshops, courses, and events. You can learn more at his website, Order of Man.

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