How Porn Erodes and Undermines Masculinity

Pornography is something that all men have likely engaged in to some degree. What’s fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men.

My guest today, J.K Emezi, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get work, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity.

“Men who choose to quit their behavior with pornography, only do so for three reasons: love, duty, or fear.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

J.K Emezi

My guest today is J.K Emezi.

He is a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach and has been for the last 9 years and he specializes in helping men overcome porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders.

This is a fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified to address the sexual issues a lot of men deal with.

He’s written for our site before and one of his articles happens to be one of the most controversial of ours to date as he covers a topic that a lot of men aren’t comfortable in discussing and one that remains very polarizing to a lot of men.

“What I’ve noticed is more and more men acting out their fantasies – they have actually started taking steps in real life to fulfill what they see – and often times, it ends up in shame.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

Show Highlights

3 reasons to quit porn
How love, duty, and fear can help you quit watching porn
How porn impacts sexual performance
How to best overcome the urge to watch porn
How the rise in robots and AI will only compound the problem
How to develop new coping skills
The biochemical imbalances of watching porn and masturbating
The five-step process for overcoming pornography addiction
Why self-imposed limitations are critical
Testosterone’s role in a man’s life
How to better utilize self-control
How to achieve true sexual satisfaction
Tips and activities for replacing the urge to engage in porn use
The technology you can use to help overcome your addiction

“Once [a man] is engaged in the behavior of watching porn, he is already altering his neural pathways, whether he likes it or not.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi

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“While there are some men who are not susceptible to [pornography] addiction, for the vast majority of men, it is only a matter of time before [pornography] effects their relationship in one way or the other.” Tweet That— J.K Emezi